Sunday, September 04, 2016

Hooked on skewer bar

Baobei brought me to this Skewer bar near our place the other day. It was both of us trying that cafe for the first time. Honestly speaking, I don't have much expectation before patronizing that place. But by the end of the day, I was won over! I will highly patronizing their place next time!

Below are some pictures:

The name of the shop

 Their price is quite affordable. These are the selections that they have. The X marks meaning that they have either sold out that list of food for the day or that it is not available

This is their operating hours, and if you crave some alcoholic drinks to go along with your skewer, here is the timing for it

The Food on display


 Chicken's heart and Liver. I personally prefer the heart than the liver. As the liver taste chewy, a taste I personally do not like.

 The fish is the highlight of our night! It was delicious and fresh!!! My hubby love the chilli. It adds flavor to the fish!



 We were served this as complimentary as the Manager find that we have waited too long for our food to be served. I did not Gage the time, as both my hubby and I were busy playing pokémon as, directly that place, there was a Pokégym there. So we were busy fighting gym while waiting for our food.  

The guys behind the food that we eat

That is all for the pictures. I do not know if they accepts bookings? But the place is quite packed by the time we were there. See the small container there? That's for the sticks after you have eaten the food. I do not know if they recycle the sticks? Or they would throw it away by the end of the day?

That is all for now. I will definitely be back for their food. Their complimentary french beans was unexpected but delighted to us! Definitely check them out! If you are craving for supper, this is the place to go to as they open till 1.30am on weekdays and 2.30am on weekends!  

Tuesday, August 23, 2016

Pokémon

It has launch on 6th August 2016, sorry but I have been too busy and thus only blog about it now. I presume the craze of this starts from overseas? Ever since it has come to Singapore about three weeks ago, almost everyone's eyes are now glued to their mobile phones now. There is a guy who claims that he has caught ALL the pokémons and Nintendo even award him a trip for free!!! You can read more about it here

I used to be one of those that says,"What's this craze about?" Until I am hooked on the game itself. I cannot say that it's fun. But I am more of trying to collect as more different types of pokémon as I can. 


In order to move your in-game Avatar, you really have to walk around in your real world. Of course, I do understand that there are some people who cheat using some sort of hacking device to cheat without walking. But that's another story.

I am pretty excited each time I caught a different kind of pokémon other than what I already have. Someday, I hope to complete my collection. Or maybe not. Because I heard that there are some pokémon that are only available overseas.



It is a very bad omen timing that somehow, the launching of the pokémon in Singapore, clashing with the opening of the hungry ghost festival. I do not know was it a mere coincidence? Already bodies has been found while playing pokémon by some players. In Chinese, we have this belief of not hanging out at night after certain timing due to thing ying chi (dark) of the spirits. But I think Singaporeans in general, just disregard this ever since the game launch 


Although I don't agree with what they are doing, I just hope that everyone can play responsibility and have some basic moral antics. 

Meanwhile, have fun playing the game! But don't neglect your main responsibility and real world responsibilities and your love ones 

Saturday, July 30, 2016

RIP Aniki Chia Liang Che

I blog this with a heavy heart. It has been a long time since I last contacted my friend. All of a sudden, he unfriend both me and my husband on Facebook. I do not know the reason, neither does he wish to speak about it. The first time and sadly, also the last time, that I have met him in person, after chatting via Wechat for a year in 2015. We planned to meet together in Langkawi for the whole year in 2014. We finally get to meet each other in Langkawi in 2015, together with my husband.

He was my husband's close friend in culinary school. We became close friends because of Wechat, that we chat with each other almost daily for 2 years. When we finally saw each other in person in Langkawi, he said he was very happy to have finally see me in person. He said it was like he knew me for a very long time. Probably it was because we chat with each other so often, we don't feel any awkwardness between us. I always used to joked that if I had an elder brother like him...blah blah blah..while he joked back too, that if I were his younger sister, he would have been very protective of whom I am seeing blah blah blah..all the good times.

He has since kicked me out of Plamo group in Facebook. A group that he set up on his own. I used to managed his Facebook page for him as an Admin. I did not blame him, as I understand that due to my busy and lazy lifestyle, I hardly manage his page for him anymore. But he refuse to tell me the reason of unfriending me. But I still respects his wishes.

We had not contact each other for about a year? Victor message me out of the blue in Facebook to ask me to check my Wechat. It was then he broke the news to me this afternoon, that Aniki has passed away. I was shock and speechless. Part of me kept hoping that this is all a sick joke! Some July fool joke or whatsoever! I message him back,"Tell me that you're lying. Tell me that this is all a joke! You're not serious right?" He ask me to see Aniki's Facebook.

True enough, I search for his name. Even though he has unfriended me, but I thank God that he has not block me. I manage to see his posts etc. I saw two condolences messages from his cousin and one of the Plamo group member. I cried silently for his departure. It was all too sudden.

Before all these, he was a chain smoker. I was the one who advice him to stop smoking. He did, since last year, shortly after our Langkawi trip. He told me that he decided to quit smoking totally. He even went to the gym at least twice a week and he even post photos of himself gaining muscles and even boast to me about it. I was happy for him then. All before he decided to unfriend me from Facebook.

If he were still alive, it would be 7 months since he last cigarette. Somehow, a part of me felt responsible towards his death. I heard from some smoker friends of mine, that a person, if they are a chain smoker or heavy smoker, it is advisable not to stop smoking completely. They can cut down on the number of cigarettes gradually and then stop smoking altogether. But not suddenly. As the body is unable to adjust the sudden lack of nicotine. I do not know how true is that?

Luckily, for me, even though I did not know what did I do to have made him unfriended me, I still apologized to him via Wechat if I ever offended him of anything. He did not respond to my messages.

Aniki, Thanks for your host during our time in Langkawi. We were very happy. It was a regret that we did not take a group picture for memory keepsake. Thank you for your friendship these two years. It was a pleasure and fun knowing you. I pray for your soul to rest in peace, and pray that you're in a better place now, wherever you are. Say Hi to my late Mum for me if you ever see her. Tell her I miss her so. But I miss you too.

27 February 1981 - 30 July 2016
Rest in Peace my Dear friend. I'll miss you always...

Tuesday, July 26, 2016

My first BTO HDB

This is way throwback. I got my keys early this year. Sometime around April? I am sorry because I have not been updating my blog for a very long time, and I almost forgot my password for it.

Most of the experienced HDB owners would advice you the throughly check your HDB upon obtaining the keys. I didn't. Thus, I only spot some faults months after moving in.

I got very different advice from both sides. HDB actually required you to check & report the faults within 14 days (or I read it somewhere like that?) But your home has a 1 year warrenty. Meaning that, during this one year duration, if you spot any defects on the HDB, you have to report immediately to BCA and they can retify it for you free of charge!

So when we first got our keys, being kiasu, I checked the tiles FIRST. Because that is what we will be using often (stepping on it). I had a very bad habit of dragging my feet as I walked. Thus, it was how I spot some uneven tiles, mostly in my living room.





I had to rectify as I felt myself tripping while I drag my feet across the floors. I know some previous HDB owners (as I read from other blogs), this is how they measure: they bought a ruler, lay the ruler flat across the tiles. See if it aligns or pops out? This is how they measure for unevenness.

Oh! I forgot to tell you, bring a chair (I'll tell you why later. I forgot to take a picture! Argh!) And some marbles. The marbles is to check for hollows in your tiles. The chair, is for you to climb up to check the window ledge. I did not do this pior to moving in. Thus, I only saw defects on the windows when I was doing house cleaning one day. Luckily, it's still be able to rectify as I am still on the one year warrenty.

There are dents on my window ledge (I did not take pictures of this) so do check for these as well. One in the master bedroom and one in the living room.

Please pray for rain when you are getting your keys and especially on the day when you do the checks. Why? It is to check for any leaks to your home. I was lucky that it consistently rained throughout the 2 or 3 days when we first check our home. There are no leaks so far. (Thank God!)

After the rectification, I thought that was the end. But no. This was what I found out after the rectification:
The tiles here sank!

But hubby was lazy to rectify it. He says that a shelf will be placed over anyway, so he don't bother to rectify.

Other than these, the rest are okay.  No hollow tiles, no water leakage. Then it was time to source for different contractors.

We had ask for about five different contractors and ask for their quotes. Most of them are over 10k!!! But I heard that it's the market price for it. The cheapest quote we were quoted was about 9K and the most expensive quote was $13,210! We did not engage any I.D (Interior Designers) as we don't see the necessary of it. However, if you are the kind of person who has money to splurge on a good I.D or you want a different concept to your home, you can try engaging them. 

You may want to read up on the different types of services offers by I.Ds, contractors and Design-and-build here

After some time of discussion with hubby and the different quotes and services they provided, we decided to engaged "Pagoda Building Contractor". They have over 30 years of experience in renovation. I personally do not take any contractors with less than 10 years of experience in the market. Because I have heard of cases whereby either they do a sloppy work for you, or worst, they did your project halfway and run away. I also notice a trend of them closing and re-opening another contractor company. So, no. I personally do not want to take such risks after I had spent so much CPF money to buy a house.  

That's being said, you have to do your own research online to check on their background, whether there has been any complaints on the one you're going to engaged? Are the complaints high? Or just a few complains? 

You can read on 2014 Today's newspaper article on them here

After paying the initial deposit, their staff came to our place to take the actual measurements and to discuss the height of the kitchen cabinet. The Father & Son did met my husband before but not me. So I only liaise with the son through whatsapp. He's so young! (Way younger than we are) but rest assured, under his father's guidance, his work is as good as his Dad. (I believe?)

They were quite fast with their work! Our home was complete in a month's time!!! Below are some pictures of the progress:

Day 0 (or Day 1) the contractor draw where the sink would be, the kitchen cabinet would be and how high we want the stove area to be

We went back on the 1st week, I think on the 3rd day that they have already done up the sink? I don't really remember but anyway, it was fast. Within a week!



These was what greet our eyes after I remembered about 3 days? Notice the round corner at the sink? They are creative and flexible to design with that in mind. 

One of the other contractors we consulted, he was not flexible to think out of the box to design that way. What he told us was the edge would stand out and will block the doorway a little. But Pagoda was considerate enough to think of that design. To others, it may be minor details like that and they don't bother to custom design it (same goes to the rest of the contractors we source their quoted and asked their design for)



I belive that these are done on the 2nd week. Hubby did rush them on the kitchen part. I don't know why. But since he's the one that uses the kitchen, I let him handle it.


The before (refer to the picture before these) and after. It looks ordinary. Nothing fanciful. He chose the colours.  
 Glass cabinet for our Gundam model kits

Kitchen windows and grills installed. We have a little one and I read about newspaper on very young toddlers falling down from high floors. This was actually an open space but we fence up for her safety.

This was the before look and above is the after

 Living room
 Master bedroom
Little one's room 
The options of window grills that was given us to choose. I actually can't decide between JS1 and JS3 but we took JS1 later on

And...that's it! All these are done up within a month.  It was time to source for air-conditions and furniture's

Mitsubitshi system 2
The little one's room
Our master bedroom
Table mirror for our master bed room

Our wardrobe

That is it for now. Just remember to thoroughly check your home for any defects before you moved in. I had neighbours who complaint about choking toilet bowls and the piping problems. But Thank God that so far, nothing happens for us. Except for the dented window ledge, everything else was okay. Till then, congratulations for those of you who just got your BTO keys to your flats! Remember to do your research and ask for your friends recommendations of their I.D or contractors to do a comparison on what you are looking for and the prices. Good luck!

Sunday, July 24, 2016

Life?

I think we have moments or life time where we do not know where should we go, or what do we really want? Recently, I have been thinking if I should re-blog again? I know that there was a period of time, blogging was so "in" thing. Everyone wants to have a blog for the sake of blogging. Of course, some people, manage to do it as their full time blogging job (aka Bloggers). Case in point, Xiaxue.

I do not know since when I started to read her blog. But it was so long ago as far as I could remember. I think when she was still very young? I did stop reading her blog after some incidents. Which I no longer remember what it was about? But I do command her and respect that she is still one of the most influential bloggers around.

I have been thinking of becoming a writer. But that path itself is not an easy path. I think? I do not know what to write about too. Except maybe food? Since I love to eat and always Instagram about food in most, if not all of my photos.

I am trying to revive my blog. But I do not know how to go on about it. Hopefully, one day, I could make it alive it like it used to be.

Till then...cheers!

Tuesday, October 27, 2015

Looking through all my old blogpost, I do not know what to say. It's not that I am happy. But I just I have just learnt to live with my decisions. Sometimes, I do not know whether or not did I make the wrong decision? Even if it is, it's pointless to think about it anymore.

He always seems to have excuses in everything that he does. Sometimes I am feeling tired. But I no longer know what to do anymore. It's been a long time since I have update my blog huh? But whatever. No one reads it anyway except myself.

I should have known that we are worlds apart. Sometimes, you really can't force love. A person who really loves you would want to be with you no matter what. A person who don't, his presence meant nothing when his mind is always so far away, or on other things.

It has come to a stage whereby I realized each and everyone of us have grown up. Each and everyone of us takes a different path of our lives. Most of the time, I feel stuck. Sometimes, not everything has fixed and not everything is worth fixing. Especially when it comes to relationships. But it's all too late now.

I no longer know what I want. The things that I truly wanted are all very far away from me. Or so it seems. I am living a life that isn't my own anymore.

My mother is no longer with me. It was  then that I realized, that she is the most important person in my entire life. Sadly, she is the most neglected person that I have put her to be. Sometimes, you only realize something or someone's value when they are gone forever. Ironic huh?

I do hope that she is in a better place now. In heaven. Or better yet, has already reincarnated. I used to rely her on everything. I still do. Except that this time, I have to handle everything by my own. She always used to say - I have grown up. I have to make my own decisions. Though some are not easy to make. It is only when she is gone, I realized that she is my only kin. In a way. My world has became dark ever since.

I don't know what to say anymore. I have to act brave and act cheerful so that none of my friends worried about me. Though some of them feel that I have been depress. I used to. I slowly learn to walk out of it, and pretending everything is okay. Or seems okay. After pro-long pretend, it will become real of what you have been imagine it to be. Right?


Friday, June 29, 2012

How Pastors Get Rich(an article by Cultwatch Director Mark Vrankovich)

http://www.cultwatch.com/HowPastorsGetRich.html

This article exposes the secret methods certain pastors use to get rich off God's people. Have you ever wondered how some pastors start a church and then become wealthy living in flash houses and driving luxury cars? Well this article exposes how they do it, extracting money from their congregations to fund their lifestyles. Here are the secrets they definitely do not want you to know.

Important Note: As you read please remember that very few pastors use the techniques you are about to discover. The great majority of Christian pastors do not earn much money even though they work hard at their jobs. Most Christian pastors would find these techniques repugnant. Please do not make the mistake of tarring the many good pastors with the brush reserved for the spiritually corrupt few.


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Table of Contents

Introduction
The Multilevel Marketing Pattern
Books
DVDs
Hyped Conferences
The Christian Speaking Circuit
Pastor Owned Businesses that Feed Off the Flock
The Honor the Pastor Scam
High Pressure Offerings
Cathedral Building Wars
Siphoning Cash into Property
Excessive Wages
Perks
Nepotism
Their Fabricated Tithing Doctrine
The Carrot and the Stick
Summary


Why you should read this Article

You will discover the secret techniques that certain pastors use to transfer money out of your pocket and into theirs.

You will understand the overall pattern behind their tricks.

You will learn enough to protect your friends and family.

You could gain thousands of dollars (or pounds or euros), literally. Reading this article can set you free. Free to keep more of the money that you have worked hard for. Money you can take and invest in genuine works of God, or in toys for your kids, or perhaps something shiny for your spouse.

Finally, reading this article can help you please God more, since you will no longer be investing in ungodly works.


Introduction

Like Judas reaching into the money bag, the sad reality is that a small minority of Christian pastors steal from God's people. As Christians we hate to face this truth, but I believe we must, because it is our duty to protect our less aware brothers and sisters - keeping them from these thieves.

Unlike so many, we do not peddle the word of God for profit. - 2 Corinthians 2:17a

Here exposed are the secret techniques used to fleece money from God's people. Don't be naive thinking that these schemes have spread throughout the world by accident. These techniques are talked about and shared behind closed doors by the clique of pastors who employ them.

It's big business. Some of them laugh at us like con-men laughing at their marks. Seriously, if you don't believe that there are men like that, then watch the 1972 documentary Marjoe. You'll soon realize that these wolfs in sheep's clothing have been a blight on Christianity throughout its history.

I will start by outlining the primary pattern that underpins these modern schemes. Then I will drill down, listing each technique one by one, exposing how they work. Finally, at the end, I will outline the biggest monetary scam of all.

First let's discover the primary pattern behind their methods...


The Multilevel Marketing Pattern

When it was almost time for the Jewish Passover, Jesus went up to Jerusalem. In the temple courts he found men selling cattle, sheep and doves, and others sitting at tables exchanging money. So he made a whip out of cords, and drove all from the temple area, both sheep and cattle; he scattered the coins of the money changers and overturned their tables. To those who sold doves he said, "Get these out of here! How dare you turn my Father's house into a market!" - John 2:13-16

We've all been approached at some time by a friend caught up in the hope of multilevel marketing. The business they are pushing is simple, sell toothpaste or web sites or whatever, and then recruit people under you doing the same, taking a cut from their sales. Soon you will be so rich that you can buy a flash European car and give stacks of money to Godly causes.

That is the dream. The proof the dream works is embodied in the wealth of the dream's leaders. Do you see how rich our leaders are? They made all their money by following the dream, proving that you can too. Except, that it's a lie.

Coming up is the key to the pattern, are you ready? These leaders did not become wealthy by following the dream, instead they became wealthy by building up a group of people who believe passionately in the dream, and then selling dream-promoting wares to this captive audience.

I will say it again, because you need to understand this pattern. They did not become rich by selling toothpaste; they became rich by hyping dream-promoting books, tapes, DVDs, and conferences to their own private market of dream believers.

This same pattern is practiced by some Christian leaders and their churches. The dream is the prosperity gospel. Their captive market is their congregation. The products are, well you guessed it: books, tapes, DVDs, and conferences, and t-shirts, and most ominously spiritual rewards and the prevention of spiritual punishments.

These leaders use their faked "success" to promote a distorted gospel which basically says: "tow the line obeying the leaders buying whatever we tell you to buy, and donate money whenever we tell you to donate, and then God will pour riches into your life." They tell us that they became successful by following this dream, but in reality they became rich by sucking money out of those caught up in the buzzing environment where this distorted gospel seems real.

Let's drill in and discuss some of the products and techniques they use to line their pockets with money that ought to have stayed with God's people or gone to legitimate good works. You are about to discover how these spiritual vampires feed...

Tip: A clue that you are caught up in one of these churches is if you hear things like, "This is your spiritual home, you can't go to another church. You must be loyal." They are very jealous about protecting their market, and do not want to lose one of their paying customers to another church. Some even try to prevent their patrons leaving by making them sign contracts or "covenants", like a mobile phone company locking you into a two year term. But the Bible does not teach that Christians are bound to their local church organization, this idea is foreign to Scripture.


Books

The first product is the leader's book (often ghostwritten and fraudulently claimed to be authored by the leader). Let's be honest, many of these books are below par. Like bad business books they have one good idea, if that, and then are padded with motivational sayings and anecdotal stories of how the leader obeyed the dream and so God hosed him down with wealth. The theological content is basically non-existent. These books would tank on Amazon or in a real bookstore, but hyped to their captive market they sell like hot cakes.

Your Counter Strategy: Buy the book if it's got good reviews or if your friends have read it and liked it. In other words treat it like you would any other book. Avoid buying it if the pastor or speaker has hyped it during his talk and especially if there is a lot of peer pressure from the group to buy. Be aware that conferences and seminars are designed to emotionally hype these products. If you've ever been to a high pressure time-share sales session, then you will know what it's like. If you're feeling the hype, then cool off for a few days, buying the book later if you still want to.


DVDs

Next comes the ever popular DVD. Most of which are videos of the leader preaching in his church on a certain topic. Let me ask you a question, is it ethical for a leader who has been paid by his church to prepare and deliver a sermon, to then take that performance and sell it back to his own church members for a healthy profit? I'm not talking here about paying for reproduction costs or the money going into church funds. I'm talking about DVDs being sold at the same cost as a movie DVD and the profit going into the leader's own pocket.

And like the books most of these DVD's are awful, not worth the money paid. Minimal content with gallons of fluff. Some are so bad that my friends and I have been in hysterics, like the preacher whose proofs for his latest invented doctrine is to slap the bible he's carrying and say, "It's bible, it's bible!".

But, these DVDs are hyped and hyped, and the captive audience buy stacks of them. In the worst money hungry churches you're expected to buy them, and it is noticed if you don't.

Your Counter Strategy: The same as for a hyped book. Is it good? Do you still want the DVD after the hype has dissipated? Then buy it, otherwise save your money.


Hyped Conferences

The hype for these conferences start months before hand. Other church members look at you strangely if you are thinking about not going. What, you can't afford the huge entry fee? What's wrong with you, don't you love God? Don't you want to be blessed? Don't you want to be successful and wealthy? Don't you want to be part of us? Because you won't be, unless you go to THE CONFERENCE!

Each speaker is completely amazing. The next best thing to the second coming.

He's built a church up from nothing to one with thousands of people. She's the most Godly woman in the universe who is the best wife ever with the best kids and the best lifestyle, and she's the pastor's wife too. He's from overseas. She's a corporate CEO. Wow. It's going to be awesome. It's going to be triple awesome! It's going to be mega massive triply awesomely awesome!

The spiritual reward for going is implied to be life changing. The conference fee is nothing, compared to the fire-fighting-bomber worth of blessings and wealth God will dump on your head from upon high.

And Jesus had conferences too, don't forget, like the Sermon on the Mount, where He charged, oh, he didn't charge anything for that spiritual teaching. In fact it was free wasn't it? Hmmm. Well, often the first-movers can't figure out how to monetize their success, we can't blame Jesus for that, can we? Gosh, if only He had some books to sell at the back...

Understand, I'm not against conferences. I'm against overly expensive hyped conferences that deliver hardly any lasting value to their attendees; Conferences that are linked to your standing in your church, and supposedly what God thinks of your commitment to Him.

And why are they so expensive? Where does all that money go? Well, in the next section you're going to find out...


Your Counter Strategy: Hire a hotel room, and sit there reading your Bible with a few Christian friends - trust me, spiritually you'll get more out of it and it'll cost less. Realize that you don't need the sugar high of a conference to get closer to God. Deprogram yourself from the idea that conferences are like a spiritual hot-point you just have to be at. See the hype for what it is. Be led by the Spirit to conferences, not pulled by the fear of losing your church friends and God's blessing.


The Christian Speaking Circuit

If you have a big market (congregation) and are willing to let others come and sell there, then your fellow pastors will invite you to come and sell into their markets (congregations) too. The bigger your own market, the larger the markets that will open their doors to you - as long as you are willing to reciprocate. Quid pro quo.

There is a Christian speaking circuit, just like there is a motivational speaking circuit. The circuit has no formal structure like say a football league, but rather is like an exclusive network or an old boys club.

Young speaking-cubs sweat blood to be allowed into the circuit. These wannabes practice hard and desperately seek in-circuit patrons because the financial rewards are significant. Revenue flows in four ways: from sales of products, from special "love offerings" taken for the speaker, from various perks, and from the formal payments (honorariums) for speaking.

Not all visiting church speakers are on the circuit, the difference is in the amount of money their visit extracts. There is nothing wrong with a speaker's flights and accommodation being paid for, along with the speaker receiving a fair payment for his time. But if the amounts are excessive and the perks extravagant, then that is an unacceptable waste of the Lord's money.

Some speaker's egos are so ripe that they demand business or first class flights, expensive chauffeured cars, five star hotel accommodation, gourmet dining, and the right to bring a small entourage along with them (at the church's expense). Their fees can be enough to buy a family car, and then they have the audacity to expect a special "love offering" to be made for them. The sales of their books and DVD's are carefully planned, and the hosting pastors are expected to hype their products.

Of course the hosting pastor will then get the same treatment later at the visiting speaker's church, including his own big fat love offering. If the visiting speaker does not have a church, then the hosting pastor will expect a cut from the speaker's product sales.

These Sunday service speaking engagements are the bread and butter, to the glamour and super-liquidity of the hyped conferences. Only the true speaking-circuit superstars get to keynote at these hype-fests. The speakers at these conferences are like sharks in a feeding frenzy, seeking to boost their profit margins with the over inflated prices of their products. Their speaking fees and perks are why these conferences cost so much, and can sometimes even run at a, ahem, cough, "loss".

It is unbelievable what some of these speakers expect from the Body of Christ. I would not like to be in their shoes when they finally meet our Lord, or for that matter anywhere within the blast radius.

Your Counter Strategy: Don't go to these conferences. Demand transparent accounting to the whole church of all costs of visiting speakers, and for that matter transparency about any income your pastor is earning while speaking at other churches and conferences. No pastor earning reasonable fees from away engagements would have a problem with this, assuming of course he is on leave when he speaks and not double dipping.


Pastor Owned Businesses that Feed Off the Flock

Another way bad pastors extract money from their captive market is to set up a business, and then get their congregation to patronize their business.

Businesses like: bookshops, counseling, gyms, production firms, computer consulting, cinemas, business coaching services, supermarkets, building firms, music festivals, music studios, real-estate firms, and many more. The bookshop is the most common, often located inside the church itself.

Members in the church who show loyalty to their pastor's businesses are rewarded, often with increased standing in the church. Members who refuse to use the pastor's businesses are frowned upon.

Your Counter Strategy: Don't frequent these types of businesses. Ask questions about who owns them, and where their customers are from, if eighty percent or more of the customers come from the pastor's church then that indicates where its marketing is targeted.


The Honor The Pastor Scam

Money focused churches tend to be run on cultic patterns. One of these cultic patterns is the division of the church into exclusive rings: the all-powerful pastor perched at the center, the inner-ring of sycophants around him consisting of the pastor's lieutenants and the church's privileged class (the rich, the famous and the very pretty), and the outer-ring of the ordinary folk who would love to be in the inner-ring, but are not.

The power of those in the inner-ring is determined by the amount of favor the pastor bestows upon them.

To get more favor the inner-ring will employ many favor-currying measures, one of which is a scam called "Honoring the Pastor". It works this way, the inner-ring will figure out what the pastor would like, say for his birthday. Then the inner-ringers will squeeze the outer-ringers for the money to buy this item.

Using this method pastors have been "given": diamond rings for their wives, cash gifts, jet skis, luxury cruises, motorbikes, cars, holidays, boats, and a myriad of other expensive luxury items.

Are the pastors complicit in this game? Of course they are. They couldn't demand the gift openly themselves, but seek plausible deniability by having their inner-ring lieutenants do the work. Of course they could refuse the gift when it is presented, and make it clear that they don't want the Lord's money spent on such things again, but they never do. These pastors exchange their favor, for cash from their congregation.

Your Counter Strategy: Unless it's something reasonable like a bunch of flowers for the pastor's wife, don't give to this sort of fund raising.


High Pressure Offerings

Another way the pastor uses his inner-ring to extract cash, is via high pressure offering talks in the church services.

One of the church's inner-ring will take the Sunday offering, which in these money focused churches can turn into a mini-sermon. These inner-ring members are competing against each other's past high scores. At stake is their standing with the pastor and hence their standing in the church. If they rake in the cash then their position is secure, but if they score low then no matter what excuses they have they know the pastor will blame them.

In the extreme money focused churches it is made known who gave the most and who gave the least, and in these churches the giving will not be in secret but people will be expected to come up the front so that everyone can see how much they give. Or people will be watched to see if they put anything in the offering container as it is passed down the aisles.

Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. - 2 Corinthians 9:7

Your Counter Strategy: If you feel you are being compelled to give then don't give a penny, no matter how much pressure is applied.


Cathedral Building Wars

Like the cathedral building wars in the middle ages where cities and countries vied against each other to build the most impressive cathedral. The pastors of these money focused churches fight to own the most impressive church to top their rival pastors - their egos demand that they are the king of the heap.

The most impressive churches require the most magnificent buildings, the most professional entertainment in their services, the best church programs, and the best conferences, the best websites, the best radio and TV programs, and the most members. All this costs a lot of money.

And just like in the days of old these self anointed church kings seek to tax their subjects to fund their private war.

Understand that these cultic churches ultimately exist to serve their pastor's insecure egos, and their congregation suffer under their madness. This type of church culture breeds a harsh environment where people are discarded as soon as they are no longer useful. This is a dysfunctional ethos entirely alien to that of Jesus's teachings.

Your Counter Strategy: Don't help fund these monuments to the pastor's pride and prestige, these pet projects, these grandiose visions. Realize that these churches are not focused on Jesus, but are centered around the narcissistic pastor and what he desires most. Don't be part of this game. Surely we are accountable to God to how we spend our money. Surely then it is our duty as Christians to give that money to true Godly works that bear real fruit for the Kingdom.


Siphoning Cash into Property

Is it ethical for the pastor (or his company or trust) to own property that the church is paying for? Of course not.

Another variation on this scam is the church trust being controlled by the pastor and his family, so they control both the church's cash and property.

Some of these pastors are very clever in how they hide the money trail. But ultimately if church money is paying for an asset the pastor owns, except via his wages of course, then it is almost certainly wrong. Imagine the furor if a politician was caught siphoning off government money into property or assets owned by himself.

Your Counter Strategy: Check who owns your church's property. If it is a trust or company then find out who owns and controls that entity. Then look at what your pastor owns directly or indirectly, and who is paying for those assets. Stop giving to that church until any unethical dealings like these are stopped and the money repaid.


Excessive Wages

The Bible teaches that the spiritual worker deserves to be paid:

The elders who direct the affairs of the church well are worthy of double honor, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching. For the Scripture says, "Do not muzzle the ox while it is treading out the grain," and "The worker deserves his wages." - 1 Timothy 5:17-18

I believe it is reasonable to assume that Paul the Apostle meant only fair wages, not excessive wages, and that Paul would have agreed with what Peter the Apostle wrote:

To the elders among you, I appeal as a fellow elder, a witness of Christ's sufferings and one who also will share in the glory to be revealed: Be shepherds of God's flock that is under your care, serving as overseers-not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not greedy for money, but eager to serve; not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock. - 1 Peter 5:1-3

Obviously one of the ways greedy pastors can extract money from God's people is via excessive wages. The amount of which they will often decide themselves, or have conferred on them by their sycophants (via the church board, or the church wages review committee, for example).

No honest pastor would have a problem with his congregation knowing how much their church pays him, or at least what range his wage fell in, like say "between $50,000 and $60,000". This is normal. Openness regarding the pastor's stipend has been a practice of the Christian church for hundreds of years, and continues today. Only those pastors who have an excessive wage would be reluctant to let the amount become public knowledge.

If your pastor refuses to be open about his wage then be very suspicious. It is likely he knows that the amount would be considered excessive. If it is excessive, then watch him dodge the issue like a sweaty politician.

Be even more suspicious whenever you hear a pastor's wage being justified by comparing him to a CEO. If you hear this CEO nonsense then you can instantly know two things: first, the pastor's wage is massive; second, you are being scammed. A pastor is not a CEO no matter how big his church empire is; a CEO runs a for monetary-profit organization, a pastors serves the people of God - they are not the same thing.

By the way, if the pastor claims to be a CEO, then you must be a shareholder. Shareholders have full rights to the accounts, including how much their "CEO" is earning.

Your Counter Strategy: Find out how much your pastor is paid. If he will not reveal the information then stop giving to that church until it is revealed. Especially stop if you hear any of this "CEO" rubbish.


Perks

Expensive leased cars, holidays, clothing allowances, spending money, restaurant meals, hotels, flights, and expense accounts, are some of the perks demanded by these luxury smitten pastors.

Some say that if they are preaching the "prosperity gospel", then they have to appear prosperous to "walk their talk". But of course that is a deception. They are using God's money to misrepresent how wealthy they are, to help prove their false teaching works. Despicable.

Rather, we have renounced secret and shameful ways; we do not use deception, nor do we distort the word of God. On the contrary, by setting forth the truth plainly we commend ourselves to every man's conscience in the sight of God. - 2 Corinthians 4:2

What is worse, many of these churches make their members complicit in this deception. Members are instructed to wear expensive clothes and groom themselves in the manner expected of the rich. They are encouraged to buy (or lease) the most impressive car they can afford. Members are required to appear happy and successful. The excuse given is that the appearance of success breeds success, but this is nonsense, more likely it breeds significant debt. The real reason the leaders want their church members to appear successful is to trick others into thinking that the prosperity dream that they preach really works.

Your Counter Strategy: Stop giving money in protest, until the excessive perks are removed. Ignore any pressure to live beyond your means.

But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. People who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge men into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. - 1 Timothy 6:3-10


Nepotism

A church isn't a family business you know; it is a family, but it's not a business.

Are the pastor's relatives high up in the church? Are they the ones with the most powerful positions? Then that is nepotism. A good church will choose the very best people for the job, while a bad church will reward those closest to the pastor with the lucrative positions of power.

If you see nepotism, then that is a sign that something is very wrong.

Your Counter Strategy: Yup, you guessed it - stop giving to that church until the pastor's little family fiefdom is disassembled.


Their Fabricated Tithing Doctrine

This is the big daddy. This is their sacred cow. This is the beating heart of their evil empire. The crown jewel. The Death Star. The one ring to bill them all. The pot of gold. Their matrix (into which they want to plug you). Their Wizard of Oz. Their magic spell. Their special power. Their secret recipe with the eleven herbs and spices. Their Golden Goose. The very air upon which they breathe!

Question this doctrine and watch these money hungry pastors bare their fangs. This is a teaching that they will bear no compromise on. Tithing, or at least their own version of tithing, is their one true love.

Here are some bullet points about tithing that these money hungry pastors don't want you to know:

  • The New Testament Church did not tithe.
  • The New Testament does not teach tithing for Christians.
  • Their favorite Malachi verses cannot be used for Christians since Christians are not under the law of Moses.
  • Abraham's one off tithe of his war booty did not set up a precedent for Christians to regularly tithe their income.
  • The version of tithing they teach cannot be found in Scripture (see below).
  • The "Storehouse" in Malachi cannot be equated to your local church organization.
  • There are plenty of rich (money wise) Christians who do not tithe. This would be impossible if their version of tithing was true.
  • The New Testament teaching is that you decide how much to give, and there are no rules about where it goes. You cannot be compelled to give.

It may come as a surprise to learn that their tithing doctrine is a combination of twisted scriptures and wishful thinking, as opposed to solid Biblical exegesis reflecting a central thrust of New Testament teaching. Here is their tithing doctrine stated in a nutshell:

"Christians must give ten percent of their gross income only to their church organization. If they do, then God will bless them for any offerings they make to the church organization beyond this ten percent. But if they do not give ten percent gross, then they are stealing from God and God will curse them."

There are variations of this teaching, and sometimes it is called a "principle", but the above definition contains the core essence of this doctrine.

It is vital to grasp that tithing is not for Christians. Tithing was part of the old law (of Moses) which was fulfilled (completed) by Jesus. You know that Christians are not under the law of Moses don't you?

But now, by dying to what once bound us, we have been released from the law so that we serve in the new way of the Spirit, and not in the old way of the written code. - Romans 7:6

know that a man is not justified by observing the law, but by faith in Jesus Christ. So we, too, have put our faith in Christ Jesus that we may be justified by faith in Christ and not by observing the law, because by observing the law no one will be justified. - Galatians 2:16

All who rely on observing the law are under a curse, for it is written: "Cursed is everyone who does not continue to do everything written in the Book of the Law." - Galatians 3:10

New wine should not be put into old wine skins, nor should new unshrunk cloth be used to patch an old garment; if you think you need to obey the law of tithing then you need to obey the whole law (or you will be cursed, Galatians 3:10).

What is more, this tithing doctrine they teach isn't found in either the New or Old Testament. Tithing in the old testament does not match what these pastors preach - this unique tithe teaching is of their own invention.

This is such an important subject that Cultwatch has a special website TithingDebate.com dedicated to setting Christians free from this fake doctrine. There are free books to download and articles to read. Make sure you read our article "Should you give? New Testament Giving Supported!", because Cultwatch is not anti-giving. If you think tithing is for Christians today, then you need to read TithingDebate.com

Tip: If you are struggling to feed your family or buy them clothes, then understand that you do not need to give to the church. You can still do so if you choose, but you should not feel under compulsion since your family is more important. Also understand that if you are poor then that does not mean God is cursing you, or that you have done something wrong; this is an erroneous teaching these greedy men promote to guilt you into giving. Remember, your duty is to your family first. If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for his immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. - 1 Timothy 5:8

Tip: Churches that push this erroneous tithing doctrine will often try to enforce tithing via written agreements (called covenants), and also by monitoring what people give (so they can compel them to give more if they are not meeting the ten percent target). First, grasp that these "covenants" are illegitimate and not worth the paper they are printed on, because they contain false doctrine (like tithing) and set up the pastors as a false authority over you. God would not be party to a covenant that contains falsehoods, therefore God was not party to the covenant you were pressured to sign, therefore you are free from this burden. It is as if you never signed it. Second, recording what you give and using that information to pressure you to give more is wrong, the Bible implies that our giving is best done in secret so that only we and God know what we gave. Don't go to a church where they monitor what you give. (note: some churches voluntarily let you record what you have given via a numbered envelope system for tax purposes. Done correctly, no one in the church will know what you gave. There is nothing wrong with this kind of recording.)

Your Counter Strategy: Stop giving to that church until they change their ways. That doesn't mean to stop giving to Godly works, we would encourage you to give as the Holy Spirit prompts you and as you decide. But it is valid to protest false doctrine by refusing to fund the system that promotes that false doctrine.


The Carrot and the Stick

These pastors are not only money hungry, but often power hungry too. They want to be both pastor and master. They commit the sin of the Pharisees and appoint themselves as middle men between God and you. They seek to replace the Holy Spirit in your life. They "lord it over" their flocks. Read Cultwatch's articles on the "Super Apostles" here if you want to find out more.

Using the connection they claim to have with God they threaten you with the stick of spiritual curses if you disobey them, and dangle the carrot of spiritual blessings if you comply. They seek to dominate your life; often implying that they have say in where you work, where you fellowship, who you marry, and of course, when, where, and how much you should give.

This is a false spiritual authority not supported by Scripture. In fact I believe it to be quite devilish (the desire to control and dominate others).

In these pastor's prosperity teaching, obeying the pastor and giving money are the two pillars necessary for a successful Christian life. If you sit back and think about it, you will quickly see what a con it is.

These men want to be at the head of everything, they want to dominate you, they want to be seen as the big man, and some even secretly desire adoration (almost worship). This is the opposite of true Christian leadership:

Also a dispute arose among them as to which of them was considered to be greatest. Jesus said to them, "The kings of the Gentiles lord it over them; and those who exercise authority over them call themselves Benefactors. But you are not to be like that. Instead, the greatest among you should be like the youngest, and the one who rules like the one who serves. For who is greater, the one who is at the table or the one who serves? Is it not the one who is at the table? But I am among you as one who serves. - Luke 22:24-27

I call God as my witness that it was in order to spare you that I did not return to Corinth. Not that we lord it over your faith, but we work with you for your joy, because it is by faith you stand firm. - 2 Corinthians 1:23-24

Jesus called them together and said, "You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all. - Mark 10:42-44

Threatening people with curses if they do not obey or donate is spiritual extortion. It is contrary to the nature of grace and the person of Jesus.

Your Counter Strategy: Don't be afraid of these men. Ignore their bluster. Grow a backbone and stand up to them. And if you give, then give to honor God and not out of fear of punishment or greed for financial gain. Memorize this verse: Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. - 2 Corinthians 9:7


Summary

I believe many church goers would be shocked if they could comprehend the real attitude their pastor has towards them. From my experience with both the cults and these money focused churches, it is my impression that instead of being looked upon with love, these pastors see their congregation as farm animals to be milked.

It is my prayer that this article will set you free from this kind of spiritual bondage. I hope now you will be able to spot this counterfeit Christian life and be able to transition into a closer walk with Jesus; a walk built on love, trust and grace, not fear.

To summarize what we have learnt about the methods money hungry pastors use to feed off their flock: We discovered the multilevel marketing pattern that these often ex-salesmen (not theologians) model their churches. We examined some of the products they sell into their captive market like books and DVDs. We unhyped the hyped conferences, and exposed the christian speaking circuit. Next we talked about how spiritually dishonest pastors set up their own businesses that their followers are expected to patronize. After that came the scam of "honoring the pastor" with gifts of luxury items. We delved into the high pressure offering mini-sermons that are designed to guilt people into giving. We examined how most of the money gained is used to build the pastor's modern day cathedrals, projects that their fragile egos demand. We exposed the scam of siphoning the church's cash into properties and assets owned by the pastor. We covered the obvious points of excessive wages and extravagant perks, and that was followed by the not so obvious problem of nepotism. Their big daddy came second to last - their fabricated tithing doctrine was exposed for what it is, a fraud. Finally we discussed the spiritual carrot and stick of the false authority that the pastors claim.

There are other methods these guys use to extract money from churches. Revisit this article regularly to discover these methods in future updates.

Realize that a number of churches follow the patterns that this article exposes. However there are many good churches who do not practice these methods. If you have been hurt by these practices then feel free to give up on these twisted money-focused environments, but please do not give up on Jesus.

Unlike so many, we do not peddle the word of God for profit. On the contrary, in Christ we speak before God with sincerity, like men sent from God. - 2 Corinthians 2:17. Therefore, can we conclude that men who peddle the word of God for profit are not sent from God?
Feel free to think this one through for yourself.



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