Paul's Birthday + Service = Happy!!!

Went for service yesterday and it was awesome! Saw Yanglin on the way to service and greet her. But what she said to me in her conversation, make me very upset that I have no mood to concentrate on service. She ask a lot of stupid questions about BaoBei and me. That time, Baobei wasn't with me cos he went to withdraw money. She heard that BaoBei and me are getting engaged. But it wasn't true. But we had paid deposit for our future wedding preparation. She then said,"Why don't you consider other guys? Is YenHao really the one for you?" Such words do hurt me alot!!! She continue on saying that YenHao is not financially stable yet as he is still serving the nation and she ask me to look for a guy who would provide me with both financial security and a future. I was very angry but I manage to keep my cool(I don't know why I can still keep my cool despite YenHao being criticize by others!!! Juliet!!! Le siao huh?!) I tried to defend and protect BaoBei by saying that because he is still serving the nation, so I would wait for him to finish his NS and wait for him to get a hotel/restaurant job. Because I was angry at her words, I then tried to defend BaoBei by saying that,"Sorry, but I feel that YenHao is the one for me. I won't consider other guys as YenHao is already good enough for me". Half of me felt like slapping her face!!! I really don't know why I can still keep my cool this way. JULIET!!!! WAKE UP!!! YOUR BAOBEI BEING SAY BY OTHERS AND YOU DO NOTHING!!!!?? IDIOT YOU!!!!! I know I work long hours in my job and the pay really sucks. When I told Yanglin, she comment that I work in a slave job. She ask me why I didn't ask Bro.Khai and Lorraine to help me look for job? THEY DID OKAY!? Just that I prefer to look for job in my own source can?! She then wish me luck. She said if I were to stay with BaoBei and he's financially not stabilize yet, I might suffer in future. Thanks Miss!!! I already know that I would suffer in terms of financial. If I really mind BaoBei's financial status, I would have leave him long ago!!! Why didn't I leave him leh?! In case you didn't know, let me tell you this: I won't leave YenHao!!! Unless he did something that I totally cannot forgive him for it. Other than that, we will try to work things out with each other! Thanks for your sympathize concern!!!

We Met Anthea's Mum and was very nervous. Finally a few of the members agreed to fellowship at Bugis! Yeah! Finally!!! Fellow shipping at the west! Yes! Cos usually we went to the East to fellowship and seriously speaking, I always mumbered to myself,"Why everything must go east? Why they cannot go west?" Then they will stay at the east until quite late and we have almost no transport home. Went to Bugis Junction to have dinner. I walk round and round the food stalls at food junction but I do not know what to eat. Finally settle down at a Kway Teow stall.

Went to meet HuiYi to lead her to join us at CG. She was crying on her way to fellowship. She said she need a hug and I did hug her for awhile. Sorry lah...Juliet don't know how to comfort people. I am not good in words and don't know what to say to cheer her up. Heard that she quarrel with Samuel again and this time it seems serious. I told her what Jane and Stephanie said during our way here about her relationship. Of course as friends, we would like to see her happiness with the one she love. But Jane said that logically speaking, she didn't think Samuel and her would last long as they often argue over petty things and HuiYi is the "princess" type of girl that needs a lot of love and pampering from her boyfriend. While her boyfriend is very immature and don't understand her needs and needs pampering too. She said she's afraid if one day when Samuel's mentality is in more matured state, he might abandon HuiYi. Stephanie said that she finds Samuel too sensitive. But as for me, I feel that they are generally very loving couple. Just that every time when they quarrel, HuiYi is the one who suffers the most and I do not know what to say or do to comfort her. I ask her to think through about her relationship. We, as friends could only do so much and could only said so much. Her happiness only lies on her own hands.

Went to Geylang to have steamboat with Paul. It's his birthday!!! Woo!!! Stephanie and Jane went to buy a cupcake to give him a birthday surprise. Paul talk about a lot of things and tension began to built up. Overall we were very happy. Jane and Stephanie then went off and we went home by Taxi. Had a very fun day yesterday.